It’s not easy to get a man to do something he doesn’t want to do but there are some things that you can do to get a man to take notice of you and even become attracted to you. If you have ever thought to yourself that it would be great if I could figure out how to get this guy to fancy me, keep reading for some tips that can help you out.
The first thing you have to do to get a man to become attracted to you is to get him to take notice of you in the first place. If he doesn’t know you exist, there is no way for him to become attracted to you. So we will start at the beginning, and in this case the beginning is making eye contact. If you are being introduced to a man, the way you look at him can make a big difference in whether he really notices you. Give him eye contact for a long enough period that he notices. Men are not always great at picking up signals so you may want to hold the eye contact a little longer than you might normally feel comfortable with.
If you see a man from across the room that you would like to get to know, eye contact is just as important. You don’t want to come across as creepy because you’re staring at him, but you do want him to notice you. Look at him and let him catch you looking at him. When he does catch you looking, shoot him a nice smile and hold eye contact for a couple more seconds before you look away. This will certainly get his attention.
Another way to help a man feel attracted to you when you first meet him is by giving him a little bit of physical contact. A subtle touch on the shoulder or a light hand on his knee when he says something funny can have a pretty profound effect.
If you are passed the initial meeting and you want a guy to fancy you, there are certainly some more things you can do to help make that happen. One thing is to be fun loving and have a good sence of humor. Another thing men are attracted to is a strong, confident woman. A man does like to feel needed but most do not want a woman that relies on him for everything. If a man is attracted to you, he wants to be your boyfriend, not your daddy. Most men want a woman who is capable of taking care of herself.
One piece of advice that most people hear all of their lives is “just be yourself” and that advice also applies to getting a man to fancy you. If you try to be someone you’re not because you are trying to be the woman you think a man is attracted to, the truth will come out at some point and the man will be wondering what happened to the woman he was attracted to.
If you massage a man’s ego it can also help him feel more attracted to you. If a man likes the way he feels when he is around you, he will want to spend more time with you. Flattery goes a long way so don’t hold back if you feel like giving him a compliment. Men love to hear it if their is something you like about them. If he is dressed well, has a nice smile, or pretty eyes, let him know about it.
Sometimes you can even take a very direct approach in getting a man to fancy you. Tell a man you like him and that is sometimes all it takes to stir up some feelings of attraction toward you. There are a number of ways to get a man to take notice of you and even become more attracted to you, but remember to just be yourself and have fun when you are out with him. That alone can make a big difference.