If you have been in a series of relationships that have ended, but you truly desire a loving and long-lasting relationship, you may be searching for information on how to make somebody fall in love with you. Unfortunately, you cannot “make” someone fall in love with you. There is some good news however. There are some things you can do to get you noticed, make you more attractive, and keep people interested in you. These types of things can “help” someone fall in love with you.
The first tip I would give anyone looking for love is to be yourself. If you pretend to be someone you’re not in order to get someone else to fall in love with you, it will never work out in the end. You cannot pretend to be someone else forever. Some women will downplay their intelligence because they are afraid that an intelligent woman might be intimidating to a man. Some men will pretend that they are more successful than they really are because they think women will be impressed by their wealth or success. The truth will come out eventually so it’s never a good idea to pretend to be someone or something you’re not to try to make somebody fall in love with you.
Everyone likes to hear a compliment from time to time, it makes people feel good about themselves. It doesn’t matter if you are a man or a woman, a compliment is nice to hear. Of course you don’t want to be handing out compliments just for the sake of giving a compliment. You don’t want it to sound fake or insincere. If you do have something nice to say though, go ahead and say it. If the person you are with makes you laugh, tell them how funny they are. If you are impressed by the way they solve a problem, tell them how smart they are. Give a compliment whenever it is appropriate, the person you are with will love to hear it.
Be Pleasant to Be Around
Most people don’t need any extra drama in their lives. If you like to argue about things, you are creating a stressful environment that will turn off a lot of people. If you can be pleasant, people will enjoy being around you more and it will be easier for someone to fall in love with you.
Connect on an Intellectual and Emotional Level
When you are on a first date with someone there is a lot of small talk. You are just getting to know each other and you will talk about things like what you do for a living, how many brothers and sisters you have, what kind of movies you like etc. If you have been dating someone for a while and you want them to fall in love with you, you are going to have to really learn a lot more about each other. You have to know what kinds of goals and aspirations the two of you share. If you have similar goals then the two of you will be more compatible and it will be easier for the two of you to fall in love. To really learn about each other is going to require some deep conversations, so after you get past the first couple of dates, tried to get past the small talk and really start learning about each other.
Be Available… But Not Too Available
This tip is mostly for women. A man will like it if you are there for him when he needs you, but if you are always there, he may start to take you for granted. If your man is going through a difficult time and he really needs someone to talk to, you should be there for him. However, it’s also a good idea to spend a little time apart once in a while, and not be together every second of every day.
If you are together all the time, a man might start to take you for granted. It’s good to spend some time apart and let him know what it feels like when you are not around. If a man is developing strong feelings for you, he won’t like it when you are not around, and that may help him realize that he is indeed developing strong feelings for you. There is a saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder, so keep that in mind and don’t let him take you for granted.
Like I mentioned earlier, it’s not possible to make someone fall in love with you, but if you put some of the ideas on this page in to practice, it is possible to help someone fall in love with you.