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How to Get This Guy to Fancy Me – Some Tips for Getting a Guy to Notice You

It’s not easy to get a man to do something he doesn’t want to do but there are some things that you can do to get a man to take notice of you and even become attracted to you. If you have ever thought to yourself that it would be great if I could figure out how to get this guy to fancy me, keep reading for some tips that can help you out.

The first thing you have to do to get a man to become attracted to you is to get him to take notice of you in the first place. If he doesn’t know you exist, there is no way for him to become attracted to you. So we will start at the beginning, and in this case the beginning is making eye contact. If you are being introduced to a man, the way you look at him can make a big difference in whether he really notices you. Give him eye contact for a long enough period that he notices. Men are not always great at picking up signals so you may want to hold the eye contact a little longer than you might normally feel comfortable with.

If you see a man from across the room that you would like to get to know, eye contact is just as important. You don’t want to come across as creepy because you’re staring at him, but you do want him to notice you. Look at him and let him catch you looking at him. When he does catch you looking, shoot him a nice smile and hold eye contact for a couple more seconds before you look away. This will certainly get his attention.

Another way to help a man feel attracted to you when you first meet him is by giving him a little bit of physical contact. A subtle touch on the shoulder or a light hand on his knee when he says something funny can have a pretty profound effect.

If you are passed the initial meeting and you want a guy to fancy you, there are certainly some more things you can do to help make that happen. One thing is to be fun loving and have a good sence of humor. Another thing men are attracted to is a strong, confident woman. A man does like to feel needed but most do not want a woman that relies on him for everything. If a man is attracted to you, he wants to be your boyfriend, not your daddy. Most men want a woman who is capable of taking care of herself.

One piece of advice that most people hear all of their lives is “just be yourself” and that advice also applies to getting a man to fancy you. If you try to be someone you’re not because you are trying to be the woman you think a man is attracted to, the truth will come out at some point and the man will be wondering what happened to the woman he was attracted to.

If you massage a man’s ego it can also help him feel more attracted to you. If a man likes the way he feels when he is around you, he will want to spend more time with you. Flattery goes a long way so don’t hold back if you feel like giving him a compliment. Men love to hear it if their is something you like about them. If he is dressed well, has a nice smile, or pretty eyes, let him know about it.

Sometimes you can even take a very direct approach in getting a man to fancy you. Tell a man you like him and that is sometimes all it takes to stir up some feelings of attraction toward you. There are a number of ways to get a man to take notice of you and even become more attracted to you, but remember to just be yourself and have fun when you are out with him. That alone can make a big difference.

Here’s How To Get Your Man Fast

Can Somebody Please Tell Me How to Get Your Man?

There are a number of scenarios where women fall for a man but somehow can’t make that breakthrough that they desire most. It may be that the relationship is destined to remain just a friendship. So here are a few ideas on how you can get your man fast. If these fail you may have to face facts and move on…

How to you get him from friend to boyfriend?

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Something that happens all the time between men and women is that a friendship develops but then one person wants to be more than just friends. Maybe you grew up together and the guy thinks of you as a sister, or maybe you met this guy when he had a serious relationship and now that they broke up you would like to take your relationship to the next level. There are a million ways that people end up in the friend zone but a lot of people don’t know what to do to get out of it. If a woman comes to me and says, “tell me how to get him to be my man” here are some of the things I would tell her.

Flirt with Him

You don’t have to be incredibly obvious and throw yourself at someone but if you flirt with one of your guy friends a little bit you can see how he responds to it. There is a chance that he has feelings for you as well but neither one of you wants to risk damaging the friendship. The dilemma is that you want to be more than friends but if you come on too strong, things will get weird and your friendship may never be the same.

If you flirt with him a little bit you may be able to figure out if he has the same feelings for you. Even if he doesn’t have the same feelings for you yet, flirting with him and showing him that you are interested may get him to change his mind about you and he may start to think of you as more than just a friend.

Start Getting Touchy-Feely

This is similar to flirting but not quite as subtle. I’m not telling you to throw yourself at him or try to plant a kiss on him. By getting touchy-feely I mean making physical contact when you are having a conversation. If you are sitting across from him at a restaurant or coffee shop you can reach over and touch his hand or touch him on the knee when you are talking. Just a little bit of physical contact might be enough to turn him on and that will help you break out of the friend zone. If he is turned on by you he may want to be more than just friends.

Watch and Listen for Clues about His Feelings

As I mentioned earlier there is a chance that he feels the same way as you do but he is also afraid to do anything about it. If your guy friend has feelings for you but he doesn’t want to come right out and say it, he might be leaving some clues with some of the other things that he says. For example, if he compares other women to you and puts you in a more favorable light, he may be interested in you. For example, if he says something like “you are much cuter than she is”, he may be trying to tell you something.

Pay attention to the way he looks at you. The eyes are the windows to the soul and you can learn a lot just by paying attention to body language. Are his actions telling you that he might be interested in a relationship?

Tell Him How You Feel

Telling him that you want more than just a friendship is definitely the most direct approach. It is a big risk because it may damage the friendship but it also has a large upside. He might feel the same way about you and then you can pursue a relationship and make him your boyfriend. Telling him how you feel is not easy to do because you might fear being rejected but nothing worthwhile comes easy.

This is one of those risk versus reward situations and you have to decide if you would rather risk losing the friendship for the chance at a romantic relationship or if you are alright with remaining friends but living with questions and regrets.

My Fiancé Is Holding Back on Our Wedding Date!

My fiancé is holding back on our wedding date, what should I do?

This is a question that I see all the time. Sometimes a couple has talked about marriage but the man never proposes. Sometimes a couple gets engaged but they never set an actual wedding date. Other times, a date is set and then it gets pushed back or rescheduled for some reason.

Why Won’t He Set A Wedding Date – Fiancé Excuses?

If you are engaged and you have set a wedding date but your fiancé has pushed the date back multiple times, it can certainly be frustrating. However, many times there are legitimate reasons for holding back on the wedding date. Maybe you were counting on certain family members to help with expenses and they are not willing to help out as much as you had hoped. Maybe he lost his job, perhaps there is an illness in the family, maybe he just doesn’t want to go into debt and would prefer to save a little more money first. These are all legitimate reasons for postponing the wedding.

Don’t Pester Him!

If your fiancé has canceled a wedding date but does not want to talk about rescheduling and gets annoyed every time you bring up the subject, that could be a sign that there is a problem. If you have only brought up the subject a couple of times but he tells you that it’s all you ever talk about, or if it seems like he would rather pick a fight than talk about your wedding, it may be a sign that he doesn’t really want to get married.

Communicate Calmly About Marriage

There are also a lot of times where the two of you have not even set a date yet and it is impossible to get him to talk about it. If you are in a relationship with someone you have to be able to communicate. It’s important that you remain calm and try not to get emotional when you are talking about setting a wedding date. You may be frustrated if you have been waiting for a long time but if you come at him with frustrated energy, he is going to get defensive and you will not be communicating, you will be fighting. Of course even if you are able to remain calm and collected, it takes two to communicate effectively. If he wants to pick a fight any time you want to talk about setting a date for your wedding, it may be time to think about making a difficult decision.

Same Old Excuses For Delaying The Wedding?

Sometimes a man may have legitimate reasons for holding back on a wedding date but eventually it may begin to sound like one excuse after another. Some men are happy with their relationship the way it is and they don’t want it to change. He may be perfectly content to just keep dating you the way he has been up until this point. If you are living together, he may not see any reason to get married. At some point, if you want to get married and he won’t set a date and stick to it, you are going to have to do something about it.

It’s usually a bad idea to give a man an ultimatum when it comes to getting married. Telling a man “you better do this, or else” will often make him angry and push him away. It can also be a source of resentment later on if you get married and things end up not going so well at some point. However, you may eventually have to make a decision about whether you are going to stay in a relationship that may never get where you want it to, or if you are willing to end the relationship and find someone who does want to get married.

Long Engagements Are OK

There’s nothing wrong with being in a relationship for five years without getting married, if that is something that you want to do. At the same time, if the two of you talk about marriage early in the relationship and he knows that your goal is to get married and start a family, he has to realize that you are not willing to wait around forever.

The Top Five Best Marriage Proposal Videos

Here’s a rundown of the Top Five Best Marriage Proposal videos that I could find while trawling through Youtube. I hope you enjoy them!

1) This guy creates a Movie Trailer as his proposal - Awesome work! Go and see more about this couple at mattandginny.com

2) She Said Yes! – Isaac Lamb’s Live Lip-Dub Proposal

3) Flash Mob Marriage Proposal – A sudden crowd of Michael Jackson dancers and a marching band set up the proposal here – This is pretty impressive and nicely choreographed!

4) This is a bit freaky at first – the girl doesn’t know whether to laugh or cry!

5) This one is just plain weird…at first… but it’s a nice quirky movie that the guy makes to propose to his girl.

Bonus Number 6) This is just plain crazy – glad she saw the funny side :)

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How to Get Him to Settle Down Without Nagging Him!

Some Advice for Getting Your Relationship to the Next Level

 

Men with commitment issues are so common that it has almost become a cliché. Not all men have a fear of commitment but if you are wondering how to get him to settle down, your man probably has an issue with the “C” word. If you are in a relationship with a man that doesn’t seem to want the relationship to progress any further and is happy to maintain the status quo, you will find some tips on this page that may help him change his mind.

Accept Your Differences

It’s wonderful when a couple wants to do everything together but people are individuals and individuals have their own interests, hobbies, and desires. Accept your differences and let your man pursue his other interests. It’s okay to spend a little time apart now and then because it will give each of you the time to pursue your own interests and each of you will be happier.

If he doesn’t like to go shopping, don’t force him to spend the entire day at the mall with you. If you don’t like to watch football, he probably won’t be upset if you let him watch the game with his friends while you do something you would like to do. Accept your differences and both of you will be happier. If he is happier in the relationship, there is a good chance that he will be ready to settle down sooner rather than later.

Spend a Little Time Apart Once in a While

The previous tip was about allowing your man to pursue his interests while giving yourself permission to pursue your own. One of the benefits of this is that spending a little time apart will actually make him want to be with you more. If the two of you spend every moment together, there is a chance that he may be taking you for granted. Spend a little time apart, and the time you do spend together will be even better.

Trust Him and Respect His Privacy

Some women get very jealous of their men and they become almost like a private eye. They sneak around, checking his e-mails, going through his phone to look at old text messages or see who’s in his contacts list. If you have a legitimate reason to suspect your man of cheating then you should try to find out the truth. However, if he has done nothing to raise your suspicions and you are still investigating him, it could be very damaging to the relationship if he finds out. Once he realizes that you are spying on him he will also realize that you do not trust him and that could certainly push him away and make him have second thoughts about taking your relationship to the next phase.

Communication Is Key

If you want to get your man to settle down and possibly even propose to you, you need to be able to communicate with him. If you have been dating for a few years and you are waiting for him to ask you to marry him, you could try to implement all of the tips above but at some point you may have to take a more direct approach.

If you decide to talk to him about your future together, do so in a nonthreatening, non-judgmental way. You don’t want to be confrontational and you don’t want to sound like you are nagging him. You could make very subtle comments and suggestions about the two of you having a future together and see how he reacts. You may also decide to come right out and tell him that you would like to see your relationship progress to the next level.

If you start talking about the future with a man that has a fear of commitment, he may begin to pull away a little bit. Don’t be alarmed if this happens, simply give him the space he needs to figure things out. If he is in love with you, once he has had time to assess his feelings he will be back in your arms and ready to settle down.

Other resources:

http://voices.yahoo.com/when-man-ready-settle-down-3244359.html

http://www.ehow.com/how_5758717_man-settle-down.html

Top 5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away

Maybe you have gone out on a few dates with a man and then suddenly he stopped returning your calls. Perhaps you have been dating a man for a few months and things seemed to be going well and then he begins to seem more distant. When a man begins to pull away from a relationship it can be confusing and frustrating for a woman. It can often leave the woman wondering what is wrong with her or what she did to drive him away.

Why do they sometimes pull away?

Gaaah! My boyfriend just told the world he’s breaking up with me, on Facebook…
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There are times when something you did or did not do may have hurt the relationship but there are also plenty of times when a man pulls away due to his own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy. To help shed some light on the subject of why men do the things they do, we put together a list of the top 5 reasons why men pull away.

1. All He Wanted Was Sex

This is a reason why men pull away that happens early in a relationship. Some men are not interested in pursuing a serious relationship and all they want to do is have sex with an attractive woman. A lot of guys are interested in the thrill of the hunt rather than the happiness of a fulfilling and committed relationship.

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There are two possible scenarios here. One is that he was only interested in sex and you had sex with him very early in the relationship. He got what he wanted and moved on. The other possibility is that you would not have sex with him and when he finally realized it wasn’t going to happen, he moved on.

The solution to this problem is to not have sex with a man too early in the relationship. If all he is interested in is having sex and you don’t give it to him, he will move on but this is not the type of man you want to be with anyway.

2. He Is Not Ready for a Serious Relationship

Not all men are predators that are on the prowl for a sexual conquest. There are plenty of men that are looking for a woman to settle down with and start a family. There are also a number of men who are interested in dating and spending time with multiple women but they are not ready to settle into a serious relationship just yet.

If you are dating a man who is not ready for a serious relationship, but he starts getting signals that you want to take the relationship to the next level, this could be something that would cause him to pull away.

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3. Fear – Fear of Commitment and Fear of Failure

Some men may think they are interested in pursuing a serious relationship but when things do start to get serious they get very anxious and may begin to pull away. One reason for this is because although a lot of men want to be in a relationship with a woman, most men don’t want to feel like they are losing their freedom or losing their sense of self.

When a relationship starts to get serious a lot of men think that they may not be able to spend time with their friends or continue doing the things they used to enjoy doing before they were in a relationship. They may also be worried that their identity is disappearing and being replaced with a new identity of being a couple.

Some men are also afraid of a relationship failing. It may not make much sense but if a man has been hurt before in the past, he may actually sabotage a relationship so that he can end it on his terms rather than suffering the pain of falling in love and being dumped again.

4. Something Has Changed in the Relationship

A man may begin to pull away if something in the relationship has changed. If things between the two of you are not the same as they were in the beginning, he will lose interest. This sometimes happens when a woman acted a certain way in the beginning of the relationship when she was trying to attract a man but then her true personality comes out later. If he feels like he doesn’t recognize the woman he is with, he will lose interest. Of course, the blame is not always on the woman. Sometimes people just grow apart for whatever reason but when things change some men will feel like it’s time to move on.

5. He Needs Time to Figure Things out

Many times when a man is falling in love and developing serious feelings for the woman he is with he has a difficult time understanding and dealing with his own feelings. Sometimes a man will begin to pull away because he needs a little time and space to figure things out. If you give him the space he needs, it won’t be long before he is chasing after you once again.

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Resources:

http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/relationships/3-reasons-men-leave-women-they-love/

http://www.wikihow.com/Keep-a-Man-Interested

 

How Do I Get Him To Want Me – Ideas!

How Do I Get Him to Want Me? What Do I Need To Do? 

 

If you’re a woman that has her eye on a particular man, you may have asked yourself the question, how do I get him to want me? What are men truly attracted to? Even if you are already in a relationship with a man, you may have asked yourself some of those same questions. There are a lot of misconceptions, and conventional wisdom is not always accurate. On this page I’m going to reveal some of the things that men are looking for and some things that you can do to make him want you.

It’s Not All about Looks

One common misconception is that men only care about looks. While physical attraction is important, it is far from the only thing that men are interested in and physical attraction becomes even less of a concern when a man gets to know a woman and becomes interested in her as a person. There has to be some level of physical attraction of course, but there are many other things that men are attracted to.

Finding a Proper Balance

Sometimes getting a man to want you is a bit of a balancing act. Men are attracted to strong, independent women, but they also like to feel as if they are important and needed. It’s important to find the balance between being independent and allowing a man to do something nice or helpful for you.

A man doesn’t want to feel like a woman is chasing after him out of desperation or because she needs someone to take care of her but at the same time, a man does like to be allowed to take care of his woman once in a while. Find the balance and he will be more attracted to you.

Time Together and Time Apart Are Both Important

Another way to get a man to want you is to form a bond with him by sharing certain activities. If there is something that the two of you like to do together, it will create a stronger feeling of attraction and help to strengthen a relationship. A shared activity might be something like hiking, bicycling, or working out. Or it might be something like watching sports together or sharing a particular hobby. The bottom line is that if there is something that the two of you enjoy doing together, doing that activity will strengthen the bond between you.

Although shared activities are great, it is also important to realize and accept the fact that men do need time for themselves. If your man has certain activities or hobbies that he enjoys to do alone or with some of his guy friends, encourage him to pursue those activities rather than making him feel guilty for not spending time with you. Let him play with the boys and he will appreciate you for it. And remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Don’t Play Games

One thing you will want to avoid if you want your man to want you is playing games. If a man is interested in you he wants to know that you like him and he doesn’t want to be constantly guessing. Try not to send mixed signals. Don’t make him feel that you are totally into him one day and completely disinterested the next day. Mixed signals and playing mind games is one way to make a man run in the opposite direction.

How to Make Him Want You

A final tip that can help any woman make a man feel more attracted to her is to massage his ego. If a man feels good about himself when he is with you, he will want to be with you a lot more. Give him compliments and let him know that you appreciate it when he does things for you. You don’t want to go overboard with this of course or it will feel fake or make you seem desperate or needy. However, if you can make him feel good about himself when he is with you, he will be incredibly attracted to you.

How To Get My Man To Want To Marry Me

What Can I Do To Get My Man To Want To Marry Me?

Throughout history, from the age of six or seven years old, every girl begins to fantasize about her wedding, her beautiful, long and white dress, and, of course, about the man of her dreams; he must look like Prince Charming, he must be dashing and loving and be somebody with whom she can live happily ever after.

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This is the fairy tale version, of course, but in many of these cases, the girl manages to encounter the man of her dreams in real life as well. He is handsome, loving, protecting. Perhaps he has a good job and a nice apartment, to add some earthly aspects to our story.

And yet, something is often missing from this storybook scenario – the ring on her finger. The proposal. The actual wedding day. The marriage. Does this story seem familiar? Does your boyfriend fit the pattern? Don’t worry, he is just a part of the 99% of men who are afraid of commitments and find the “m” word hard to spell, difficult to hear and impossible to consider.

Pressuring him won’t do any good either because, no matter how much in love with you he is, the imagined chains and being under-the-thumb will always be there in the back of his mind. Some men are like this naturally. It’s not something you’re doing wrong and you’re not alone with this problem. So how to fix it?

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You know how dog trainers teach puppies to stay in their crate by filling it with treats and toys and leaving the doors open so that the puppies feel that they are free to come in and out anytime they wish? This is exactly what you should do. Give him a taste of what being married to you might feel like, but don’t ask for the ring. Let him see what he could enjoy every evening and then go home.

Give him freedom, but ensure that when he feels that it’s time to give away a portion of that freedom that he will give it up by his own command. If he does not feel pressured, if he feels that you treasure your own freedom and you are not so ready to commit yourself, he might feel more inclined to take hold of the situation himself – in a way, you can subtly lead him to wanting to propose because he’ll want more of you than you are giving him. This is not blackmail, it’s simply showing him what he might miss if he doesn’t take the opportunity sooner.

Much of this is about how well you know him; in your ability to read his mind, to anticipate his moves and to satisfy his needs without letting him get used to it and taking it for granted. And don’t worry if you are at a loss for ideas, we all find ourselves in this situation sooner or later. Check out some of the other blog posts that are about keeping your man – and keeping him happy (over to the right). Maybe you simply don’t have the right man yet? You’ll also find tips on attracting men and, more importantly – attracting the right kind of men that are not going to procrastinate forever. The kind of man that will want to marry me is not gonna come around very often.

The Internet abounds in relationship guides and blogs which are stuffed with marriage and relationship advice you can use. If choosing seems difficult, here is a tip: check out guides or pieces of advice written by men, simply because there is a huge difference between what men think and what women believe they think – you’ll find many article pieces in the blog here that give the lowdown on a man’s perspective on marriage. This makes crucial reading for the woman that either needs to understand her current guy’s ways of thinking or for those that are looking to attract the right kind of partner from the get-go.

It is better to learn from someone who has actually been in your loved one’s shoes than to listen to the supposition of some woman who was just lucky enough to be proposed to by her man.

Attracting The Right Man – How Do I Do It?

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For example, the Girl Gets Ring course is one of the most interesting blueprints available online, written by men who were once afraid to commit and they are now happily married, who know exactly what your man is going through and who can guide your every step towards the wedding you have been dreaming of. The best proof that the system works are the thousands of positive reviews received and the very authors, who turned from desired bachelors to loving husbands. Check Out Girl Gets Ring Here

Check out my review of this ground-breaking system when you get a chance. You might be shocked by what you discover about the man in your life and the way he’s thinking.

My Younger Boyfriend Keeps Putting Off Marriage

My younger boyfriend knows I want to get married but he keeps putting it off. There was a time not long ago when he was keen to get married. We were saving up for the big day and both of our parents were going to help out with the finances. Everybody seemed happy so we announced our engagement after a magical proposal on a beautiful sunset beach in India. Getting my boyfriend to propose was not something that I even struggled with back then – he just seemed ready and did it, naturally, off his own back – there was no cajoling or nagging him from me.

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The trouble is – that was four years ago and it’s become a bit of a running joke about when are we going to actually get hitched. I’m getting fed up and frustrated with all of my girlfriends sniping and starting to egg me into believing that he will never marry me now. It’s also kind of embarrassing with my family (and his, I think) that the engagement seems to have come to nothing thus far.

I don’t know why but he nearly always shies away from the conversation, even when I explain that we have the finances in place and everything seems ready – so I don’t think it’s the finances that are bothering him. He says he loves me and still wants to get married but he’s really loathe to commit to a date and gets annoyed now when I bring the subject up.

I’m not sure but I think he’s scared of the whole commitment thing. Arguments have been occurring lately when he’s wanted to stay at the pub all day and evening because there’s some soccer match or something that he wants to watch. I mean, come on, that’s a 90 minute game the last time I looked. I’m sure there is something more to this and I’m scared that we’re drifting apart. Or, at least, he’s drifting apart from me. I still love him dearly but I can’t get over the feeling that he doesn’t feel the same way anymore.

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A large part of the problem, I’m sure, is that none of his friends are married – and he’s four years younger than me. The age mismatch means that most of my friends are settled with kids and all of his are still living the party dream. This definitely affects him in some way because he’s become negative about going out with my friends now. They usually only want to go out for a meal because they can only have the babysitter for so long and so it’s usually a meal out and a pretty early night home. He’s forthright recently in telling me that he finds them and that lifestyle boring. It didn’t seem to be a problem in the beginning – I suppose it never is when you are keen and falling in love with somebody – people will go through all sorts when they are in that situation and it never seems to be a problem. Now, it seems that the idea of committing and settling down with kids is starting to get to him.

I’ve tried explaining to him that marriage would not mean the end of his life as he knows it now. I’m pretty lenient with him and let him go out pretty much when he pleases but he has started saying that he’ll be under the thumb as soon as the ring is on my finger. I know that if I want to keep him that I’ll have to convince him that I want him the way he is. I respect his freedom and individuality – secretly, however, I feel that even now I am becoming a nag and a bore to him as we both seem to want different things. Or, at least, I want them sooner than he does.

So, I’m in a bit of a quandary, really. Do I wait it out – possibly for a long time – possibly for nothing, while my friends move on with their happy little families? Or do I start thinking about leaving him for somebody with a more mature outlook than his. Somebody who is ready to settle down and do all the things with me that I dreamed marriage would be about? If my boyfriend continues putting off marriage, I’m afraid that I’ll be forced to move on – yet, my heart keeps insisting that I love him and he’s still the right man for me.

My good friend Jessica at Get Married Tips asked me to spell out my marriage woes here on her new blog. She hopes that her good readers will be able to share their similar stories and perhaps offer some insights into their own situations, what they did about it and what the eventual outcomes were. She’ll take me aside and offer me her own good advice over a glass of vino – but we thought we’d reach out for any ideas, that you might be willing to share first. It will give us something to munch and brood over and may offer fresh insight into my experience or a new approach or angle to explore that both of us may have overlooked. I really look forward to your comments.

My name will remain anonymous to protect the [innocent].

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How To Get My Boyfriend To Propose In 3 Easy Steps

I’m always getting this question from ladies desperate to get that ring on their finger. How do I get my boyfriend to propose to me?

How To Get My Boyfriend To Propose To Me In Three Easy Steps

The first thing that I usually tell them is that they are probably trying too hard. Guys can be gently nudged and cajoled but they cannot be forced into a marriage if they’re simply not ready for it. Indeed, if you approach things the wrong way and get over pushy – he’s likely to disappear for good!

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One of the first things that you need to do is stop the incessant talk about engagement and how so and so is so happy now that she’s got engaged. He doesn’t really want to hear it and drumming it into him day after day will wear him down to the point of snappiness.

Getting married is the easy part – but getting him to propose marriage in the first place is tricky. There are a multitude of reasons why he might not want to get married right now, including the obvious ones. He doesn’t want to lose his freedom. He can’t afford it. Or there’s the career driven guy who wants to concentrate on that first before he settles down and has kids.

Getting Married Is Easy. Getting your boyfriend to propose is the difficult part

Still Waiting For That Proposal?

Don’t panic. It’s most often not that he doesn’t want to marry you. It’s just that he doesn’t want to marry you right now. So what can you do to speed up his internal marriage clock and get him to pop the question that bit quicker? Like I mentioned before, you need to employ subtle psychological tactics and actually let him feel that you’ve dropped the subject. Make damned sure that your friends, your mother and father and other members of your family are likewise not pressurizing him on the subject. Indeed, if this ever happens publicly ask them to lay off. If he feels like you’re on his side in this matter then he’s going to be much more likely to consider the question on its own merits than if you’re all ganging up on him.

 

 

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If he’s worried about money – then you need to assure him that you’re not going to be constantly burning his wallet. Don’t keep insisting on how you want the perfect white wedding with the fancy car, the most expensive wedding dress at the swankiest place in town. Not only for wedding talk but for all aspects of your life you need to show him that you can get by without him spending money on you all the time.

What about that other scenario where, wait for it…he secretly feels that he needs to hang around for longer because he’s not sure that you are definitely the one for him? If you’re not treating him right and showing him that you are the catch of the century, he’ll definitely have this on the back of his mind. Yes, it’s true. Deal with it. It doesn’t matter how much he seems to be in love with you, men have something built into their DNA that predetermines them to always be on the lookout for something better.

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Now, again, I don’t want you to panic. This is all hypothetical, right? Well you can’t assume that he dedicates his devotion to you 100% all the time. You need to always strive to be attractive to him and subtly make him realize that there’s nobody better for him out there.

He will have fears about marriage and that may be why you are now asking the question about how to get your boyfriend to propose to you. You need to find a way of allaying those fears without it seeming too obvious which direction you are leading him in.