Archive | November 2012

How To Get Him To Propose – Subtle Suggestions

If you have been in a relationship with a man for a long time and everything is going great, how come he hasn’t proposed marriage yet? When things are going great, sometimes it’s easy to get comfortable and just keep things the way they are. Maybe he takes you for granted and feels like you will always be his girlfriend. If you want to take your relationship to the next level then read the following hints on how to persuade him to propose marriage.

Discover 10 Secrets To Getting Your Man To Propose That 95 Percent Of Women Don’t Know About

Talk About Marriage

A good primer for gauging his feeling on the subject is to simply talk about marriage. You can be subtle of course, maybe mention another couple you know that recently got married or talk about what a great marriage your parents have. You could also have a casual chat about your future with each other. You may not want to come on too strong but you could talk about what it would be like if you decided to tie the knot, buy a house together, raise a family etc.

Does He Want To Get Married At All?

If you start talking about a future together, watch him and see if he reacts in a strange way. Does he look like he wants to get involved in the conversation or does he appear like he’d rather change the subject sharpish? Hopefully, the man you have been dating all this time really does intend to get married at some point. These are the types of things you should cover early on in the relationship but if you are dating a man who has no intention of ever getting married or having children, getting your boyfriend to propose might be difficult. If you are dating a man who has expressed an interest in getting married someday, starting to bring up the subject and talk about it should be enough to get him thinking about it. If you have been dating for a long time, if he is in love with you, and if you get him thinking about marriage, he will propose at some point.

Discover 10 Secrets To Getting Your Man To Propose That 95 Percent Of Women Don’t Know About

Don’t Nag Him For A Proposal!

One thing that you should avoid doing is talking about marriage too often. You don’t want to seem like you are nagging him about getting married because doing this will make you seem needy and desperate. You can bring up the subject, but don’t overdo it.

Show Him What He’d Be Missing If He Doesn’t Propose

Another way to get him to propose marriage would be to show him what a wonderful wife you would be. The way to do that is to be a wonderful girlfriend. Be caring and thoughtful, be kind, be sincere. At the same time, you also have to let him know that you have a life of your own. If you are always around whenever he wants you to be and you are waiting on him hand and foot he will certainly take you for granted. You should have your own hobbies, go out with your friends, pursue your own interests, and accept the fact that it’s okay to spend some time apart. Spending some time apart is good for a relationship, after all, absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Discover 10 Secrets To Getting Your Man To Propose That 95 Percent Of Women Don’t Know About

Make Him Feel Good

Something else you can do that will increase your odds of getting him to take the next step in your relationship is to simply make him feel good about himself. Men can be relatively emotionally simple or blase about getting hitched but if he feels good about himself when he is around you, he will love you for it. If you massage his ego and show him that you love, respect, and appreciate him, he will love you.

Men Fear Marriage – Dispel Those Fears!

One of the reasons why a lot of men seem to wait so long to propose marriage is because of fear. A lot of men are afraid that after getting married their lives will change and they will not be the same man they are today. A man doesn’t want to lose his identity or his sense of self and he doesn’t want to lose his freedom. One way for you to reassure him that these things won’t happen is to encourage him to pursue his own interests and hobbies. Encourage him to spend time with his friends and allow him to do the things he currently enjoys doing. If he believes that his life will not end as a married man but will only change for the better, his fear of commitment will diminish.

How to Get This Guy to Fancy Me – Some Tips for Getting a Guy to Notice You

It’s not easy to get a man to do something he doesn’t want to do but there are some things that you can do to get a man to take notice of you and even become attracted to you. If you have ever thought to yourself that it would be great if I could figure out how to get this guy to fancy me, keep reading for some tips that can help you out.

The first thing you have to do to get a man to become attracted to you is to get him to take notice of you in the first place. If he doesn’t know you exist, there is no way for him to become attracted to you. So we will start at the beginning, and in this case the beginning is making eye contact. If you are being introduced to a man, the way you look at him can make a big difference in whether he really notices you. Give him eye contact for a long enough period that he notices. Men are not always great at picking up signals so you may want to hold the eye contact a little longer than you might normally feel comfortable with.

If you see a man from across the room that you would like to get to know, eye contact is just as important. You don’t want to come across as creepy because you’re staring at him, but you do want him to notice you. Look at him and let him catch you looking at him. When he does catch you looking, shoot him a nice smile and hold eye contact for a couple more seconds before you look away. This will certainly get his attention.

Another way to help a man feel attracted to you when you first meet him is by giving him a little bit of physical contact. A subtle touch on the shoulder or a light hand on his knee when he says something funny can have a pretty profound effect.

If you are passed the initial meeting and you want a guy to fancy you, there are certainly some more things you can do to help make that happen. One thing is to be fun loving and have a good sence of humor. Another thing men are attracted to is a strong, confident woman. A man does like to feel needed but most do not want a woman that relies on him for everything. If a man is attracted to you, he wants to be your boyfriend, not your daddy. Most men want a woman who is capable of taking care of herself.

One piece of advice that most people hear all of their lives is “just be yourself” and that advice also applies to getting a man to fancy you. If you try to be someone you’re not because you are trying to be the woman you think a man is attracted to, the truth will come out at some point and the man will be wondering what happened to the woman he was attracted to.

If you massage a man’s ego it can also help him feel more attracted to you. If a man likes the way he feels when he is around you, he will want to spend more time with you. Flattery goes a long way so don’t hold back if you feel like giving him a compliment. Men love to hear it if their is something you like about them. If he is dressed well, has a nice smile, or pretty eyes, let him know about it.

Sometimes you can even take a very direct approach in getting a man to fancy you. Tell a man you like him and that is sometimes all it takes to stir up some feelings of attraction toward you. There are a number of ways to get a man to take notice of you and even become more attracted to you, but remember to just be yourself and have fun when you are out with him. That alone can make a big difference.

Here’s How To Get Your Man Fast

Can Somebody Please Tell Me How to Get Your Man?

There are a number of scenarios where women fall for a man but somehow can’t make that breakthrough that they desire most. It may be that the relationship is destined to remain just a friendship. So here are a few ideas on how you can get your man fast. If these fail you may have to face facts and move on…

How to you get him from friend to boyfriend?

Here’s How To Get The Man You Want
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Something that happens all the time between men and women is that a friendship develops but then one person wants to be more than just friends. Maybe you grew up together and the guy thinks of you as a sister, or maybe you met this guy when he had a serious relationship and now that they broke up you would like to take your relationship to the next level. There are a million ways that people end up in the friend zone but a lot of people don’t know what to do to get out of it. If a woman comes to me and says, “tell me how to get him to be my man” here are some of the things I would tell her.

Flirt with Him

You don’t have to be incredibly obvious and throw yourself at someone but if you flirt with one of your guy friends a little bit you can see how he responds to it. There is a chance that he has feelings for you as well but neither one of you wants to risk damaging the friendship. The dilemma is that you want to be more than friends but if you come on too strong, things will get weird and your friendship may never be the same.

If you flirt with him a little bit you may be able to figure out if he has the same feelings for you. Even if he doesn’t have the same feelings for you yet, flirting with him and showing him that you are interested may get him to change his mind about you and he may start to think of you as more than just a friend.

Start Getting Touchy-Feely

This is similar to flirting but not quite as subtle. I’m not telling you to throw yourself at him or try to plant a kiss on him. By getting touchy-feely I mean making physical contact when you are having a conversation. If you are sitting across from him at a restaurant or coffee shop you can reach over and touch his hand or touch him on the knee when you are talking. Just a little bit of physical contact might be enough to turn him on and that will help you break out of the friend zone. If he is turned on by you he may want to be more than just friends.

Watch and Listen for Clues about His Feelings

As I mentioned earlier there is a chance that he feels the same way as you do but he is also afraid to do anything about it. If your guy friend has feelings for you but he doesn’t want to come right out and say it, he might be leaving some clues with some of the other things that he says. For example, if he compares other women to you and puts you in a more favorable light, he may be interested in you. For example, if he says something like “you are much cuter than she is”, he may be trying to tell you something.

Pay attention to the way he looks at you. The eyes are the windows to the soul and you can learn a lot just by paying attention to body language. Are his actions telling you that he might be interested in a relationship?

Tell Him How You Feel

Telling him that you want more than just a friendship is definitely the most direct approach. It is a big risk because it may damage the friendship but it also has a large upside. He might feel the same way about you and then you can pursue a relationship and make him your boyfriend. Telling him how you feel is not easy to do because you might fear being rejected but nothing worthwhile comes easy.

This is one of those risk versus reward situations and you have to decide if you would rather risk losing the friendship for the chance at a romantic relationship or if you are alright with remaining friends but living with questions and regrets.