How Do I Get Him to Want Me? What Do I Need To Do?
If you’re a woman that has her eye on a particular man, you may have asked yourself the question, how do I get him to want me? What are men truly attracted to? Even if you are already in a relationship with a man, you may have asked yourself some of those same questions. There are a lot of misconceptions, and conventional wisdom is not always accurate. On this page I’m going to reveal some of the things that men are looking for and some things that you can do to make him want you.
It’s Not All about Looks
One common misconception is that men only care about looks. While physical attraction is important, it is far from the only thing that men are interested in and physical attraction becomes even less of a concern when a man gets to know a woman and becomes interested in her as a person. There has to be some level of physical attraction of course, but there are many other things that men are attracted to.
Finding a Proper Balance
Sometimes getting a man to want you is a bit of a balancing act. Men are attracted to strong, independent women, but they also like to feel as if they are important and needed. It’s important to find the balance between being independent and allowing a man to do something nice or helpful for you.
A man doesn’t want to feel like a woman is chasing after him out of desperation or because she needs someone to take care of her but at the same time, a man does like to be allowed to take care of his woman once in a while. Find the balance and he will be more attracted to you.
Time Together and Time Apart Are Both Important
Another way to get a man to want you is to form a bond with him by sharing certain activities. If there is something that the two of you like to do together, it will create a stronger feeling of attraction and help to strengthen a relationship. A shared activity might be something like hiking, bicycling, or working out. Or it might be something like watching sports together or sharing a particular hobby. The bottom line is that if there is something that the two of you enjoy doing together, doing that activity will strengthen the bond between you.
Although shared activities are great, it is also important to realize and accept the fact that men do need time for themselves. If your man has certain activities or hobbies that he enjoys to do alone or with some of his guy friends, encourage him to pursue those activities rather than making him feel guilty for not spending time with you. Let him play with the boys and he will appreciate you for it. And remember that absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Don’t Play Games
One thing you will want to avoid if you want your man to want you is playing games. If a man is interested in you he wants to know that you like him and he doesn’t want to be constantly guessing. Try not to send mixed signals. Don’t make him feel that you are totally into him one day and completely disinterested the next day. Mixed signals and playing mind games is one way to make a man run in the opposite direction.
How to Make Him Want You
A final tip that can help any woman make a man feel more attracted to her is to massage his ego. If a man feels good about himself when he is with you, he will want to be with you a lot more. Give him compliments and let him know that you appreciate it when he does things for you. You don’t want to go overboard with this of course or it will feel fake or make you seem desperate or needy. However, if you can make him feel good about himself when he is with you, he will be incredibly attracted to you.